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So on Wednesday I had this conversation with a co-worker about me dieting. I had told her I've lost 16 and counting. I also told her that I have not break my diet in about a month now. She is a beautiful young lady who weights about 250-300 lbs. She mentioned to me that she's eating healthier even though she's not looking to loose weight, she's happy with her weight. Then I mention that she's making great choices in eating healthier. Today Friday she shows up and tells me "I got something for you" I said ok, and walked with her. She grabbed a bag of Milano cookies and gave them to me. I gave them back and told her, "Thank you but I can't, I need to continue to make healthy choices."
For some weird reason, I felt sabotaged.
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Good for you! And BOOOO on her!!!! They say "Misery loves company". Stick to your guns and keep going!
15 abr 16 por membro: Bowdies Mom
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That sounds like an effort to sabotage your great work. Or, she was just testing your resolve. Either way, you're a stronger person because of it. Keep up the great work!!!
15 abr 16 por membro: Annie42
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Stay strong...some people just want to bring us down
15 abr 16 por membro: Cmrolan
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That's because she was trying to sabotage you. Some people can't handle other success. Good for you in sticking to your diet!
15 abr 16 por membro: CatHerder
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I agree with cat. It sounds like she was jealous. I bet she'll be here in the community real soon because of you. People watch us all the time without our knowledge and then all of the sudden...
15 abr 16 por membro: peggermo
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Sometimes I think this site is best in giving encouragement to others to resist, what they know they like, but shouldn't eat to reach a goal. It is a constant battle. It is about building a resistance to look, but don't touch.
15 abr 16 por membro: warrenwinter
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Jealous for sure... Great Job in refusing them YOU are kicking A$$ :) Keep up the good work!
15 abr 16 por membro: karenphillips
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You got this! She doesn't !
15 abr 16 por membro: SjF60
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Good for you, refusing and giving a reason why, because this is a gentle instruction about what constitutes healthy eating. Some folks would accept and quietly throw the cookie away. Who knows what she was thinking. Yeah, COULD be jealously or sabotage, but maybe - in her mind - the cookies were "healthier eating" because they weren't donuts.
15 abr 16 por membro: trackin64
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Sounds like you took a great approach. Similarly, I've seen people who are trying to quit smoking have smoke blown in their faces by people trying to tempt them. You really have to be on your guard with some people, even if their intentions are well meant. As a friend once told me, "People who aren't encouraging you don't need to be around you." I hope this helps.
15 abr 16 por membro: jnix911
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I agree with all the other comments. Could be sabotage, jealousy, or just simply tempting you to see if you'd take them. Either way, you resisted, and that's AWESOME! I love the phrase "healthier choices"... To me, a diet is something that comes and goes, but making healthier choices is a way of life.
15 abr 16 por membro: jessberry
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total sabotage, unreal... jealousy is a frightening thing, steer clear and congrats!
15 abr 16 por membro: Betsy1064
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you feel sabotaged because you WERE sabotaged! good for you for keeping to your plan and handing the cookies back. you're doing great so keep on keeping on!!
15 abr 16 por membro: berley1
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Thank you all for chipping in and for all the great advice and support.
15 abr 16 por membro: Gleny1220
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Even after your coworker was so unsupportive, you still referred to her as, "a beautiful young lady who weights about 250-300 lbs." You are a gracious woman and should be proud of yourself for your attitudes and behaviors. Great job all the way around!
15 abr 16 por membro: kpwcalories
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OMG WHAT a JEALOUS BITCH! smh
15 abr 16 por membro: Bnitaq
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Life is a ladder. Some perceive you above them on the ladder and they want you to share your position, go around the back side of the ladder or just plain knock you down a few rungs.
15 abr 16 por membro: Edardj
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Good for you staying true to YOU! Her motive is not relevent. I have been working on letting things go (anger/fear/resentment etc...) and have found that other peoples motives and reasons are not relevent to how I act and react! Excellent job!
15 abr 16 por membro: Rckc
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Sorry about your co-worker. Mine have been wonderful since I told them I am on a lower calorie diet. We celebrate birthdays each month and when my birthday came, instead of cake or some other dessert, they got a veggie tray. I wish everyone was as thoughtful. Good job not accepting the cookies.
15 abr 16 por membro: Niki_6
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15 abr 16 por membro: bikerT
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