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Crunch week.
My mother is coming to visit on Saturday for a week. She weighs 110lbs at 5'4" soaking wet.
She never said much when I put on the weight, could see it in her face.
Her parents were Lighting Directors. My Mother was a Soap Actress many moons ago and then a Dance Instructor. She has always had food issues. Always on a diet.
Maybe that is why I get so stressed before she comes.
One of my sisters also has body image issues.
Ugh, what our parents teach us....
After a weeks visit she will go home. I will remind myself I am doing this for me. I am doing it for the Rosacea, the Neuropathy, Sleep, and the Pre Diabetes.
I am doing it because I like to wear cute Sundresses.
Happy Monday Everyone!! xoxo
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Gord: 102,57g | Prot: 44,16g | Carbs: 11,83g.
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oh gosh I think many of us have these issues with our mothers. mine was a clean freak, I would work myself up into a panic cleaning, no matter how well I cleaned she would find something to clean, I have to laugh now, she cleaned the cracks in my countertops with a toothpick that time. I think all mothers can not stop mothering their daughters. I learned to accept she was not doing this to cause me distress, she was doing it because since I was all grown up it was the only way she could express her wanting to take care of me in the few days she had with me. Maybe this will different way of thinking I have won't really make you feel better, but I hope you feel less alone in your concerns. Try to relax and you have plenty to be proud of all the hard work you have been putting in to make you the best you can be. I am sure your mother will be thrilled with your progress and long term goals.
02 jul 18 por membro: baskington
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Oh my goodness, I feel your pain. For me it’s my in laws. You seem to have a great outlook tho - you know what will happen and that it will all be okay! Hang in there!
02 jul 18 por membro: crazy8cottage
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My mom will let me know about my weight also. She does it in subtle ways. I think she means well but it can definitely create body image issues.
02 jul 18 por membro: HSBF
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Good luck, i hope it goes well!
02 jul 18 por membro: jengetfit123
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Mom issues then you get older and you have daughter issues....as in oh gross, I am doing to her what my mom did to me! I am fortunate to have a wonderful daughter who will call me out and then we can laugh about it. Humor and patience will get you through it....and we will be rooting for you. Hang in there
02 jul 18 por membro: Gingerk65
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Now my mom supports me, she says she’s proud. Before let’s not even go there right now 😳
02 jul 18 por membro: rosio19
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I am glad that you said that you are doing this for you. You made a major breakthrough....
02 jul 18 por membro: cstella1
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I hope you just enjoy her visit, laugh or smile a lot, and just be you. You can get back on track stress free after she leaves. Oh...and don't let your facial expressions (rolling eyes, etc) get her to thinking you don't respect/love her. Life is short. Too many people pass before their time.
02 jul 18 por membro: kattay
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Thanks for the support and kind words everyone!
02 jul 18 por membro: Kim4dogNite
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Just wanted to say that you are darling and don’t let her insecurities become yours!
02 jul 18 por membro: lynowen
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Kimmie, Kimmie, Kimmie! I know what you mean! My mother's been gone 50 years the end of this month, but her legacy of body image stuff lives on in my head (and my belly, and my hips, and my ...). Planning has got to be a big key, just do what you've been doing and keep a sense of humor. Your macros and calories look great, and so do you!
02 jul 18 por membro: Miraculum
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03 jul 18 por membro: Kim4dogNite
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I love what Kattay said ... just enjoy her, have fun, and remember - you ARE doing this for YOU!
03 jul 18 por membro: nattie720
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